Wednesday, December 17, 2008

爱得更宽容

一笼子同种的鸟,看起来有什么不同?
一地球同样的人,骨子里有什么差异?
都是圆颅方跐,都有喜怒爱憎,
于是看别人好像看自己,想自己就能猜别人。
给别人多一步宽容,就是给自己多几分天地。

BY<爱是一种美丽的疼痛>
作者:刘墉

actually what is the 'love'?
now i still reading the book'love is a beautiful pain'..hope this book can help me find out the answer^^

9 comments:

Nani.. Once upon a time, and happily ever after~ said...

of coz, you know what is love.. but just you rtrue love is still on the way~ you might feel a little pain sometimes, yet you also feel the sweetness of the pain in times later.. don worry too much,

we all love you as your friend, you are kind, adorable and so sincere, someone will cherish you soon~~

i hope you live a happy day after day, with smiles on your cheeks, sleep tight with sweetdreams and feel energetic in the class every morning til night!

you can do it!

i love you! forever friends* ^.+

yen said...

haha...thank you very much nani
dun worry...i will happy always
and i know how2 go on my life,
i love u also..hehe
muaks~

Anonymous said...

try to find the meaning of love through book...that ridiculous....experience it urself...take care..

yen said...

actually that book can't help me any also..haha!
experience it?haha..sure wan la
but also need to be careful ma..lolx

Anonymous said...

ppl do mistake no matter how carefull they are!Are you try to live in a world without a mistake? flawless love ? dont dreaming, be real!!!carefull in love stand no point since ppl heart are hard to be predict;;be carefull on road,doin job,drinkin,eating,words spoken, and mormore:tht the usage of the carefull:...想自己就能猜别人..meaning u putting ur own thought to judge and understand ppl action,that why 想自己就能猜别人,You just like a xiao mei mei...how old are u ?? 20 ? is that real ? stop reading novel, novel cheat ppl n manipulate ppl thinking.

yen said...

i thought the meaning 想自己就能猜别人 is mean 将心比心!
i am not'xiao mei mei',20 years old already...
i need to learn become more mature and tough.
ya,i know we impossible live in a world without mistake...but sometime,if we play carefuly,we can avoid the unnecessary mistake..
haha,ya,experience it is better than reading...but......haha^^

Anonymous said...

((if we play carefuly,we can avoid the unnecessary mistake)).i guess u still not understand wat i tryin to say. Plus, u use the word PLAY..what a mean..haizz..
u want to learn become more mature and tough,mature and tough in this world seem obtain by experience it and not learn it, if mature and tough can be learn, then i think in this world,there will no ppl crying over at night,and human are allowed to cry no matter how strong tht human are,dont u think? i wonder what the different between "i want to learn become more mature and tough" and "i want to become more mature and tough" i already know the different between these two words, are u ? dont ask me for asnwer, coz i want u obtain the answer through urself someday and not learn from others ppl asnwer in order to obtain the true value of this question,not everthin can learn frm book or others source.(BUT)always represent smtg about contrary,make sure u wont become a contrary person, and fullfill what u had decide or say else others may think u are a contrary,bring empty promises and more. I think u wont have the chance to know who am i and my real name coz i just a blog passenger,n i always put comment on others ppl blog.

yen said...

be honest,
those philosophy book help me many since long long ago i hv one period is pessimism and down(but wan2 see what type of book la).that time nobody can help me,i just depend those philosophy book and myself to buck up.but now i seldom touch those book again,because some of knowledge and experience is keep in my mind oledi,,just sometime i still will lose myself and direction...dunno y?
ya,i still no enough experience to become more mature and tough..never mind, just let the thing happen natural..
live in this world is a big challenge,we never know what will happen in next second and what we will be in future,maybe is gd,maybe is bad..
so i always keeping telling myself wan2 appreciate now and effort to our future(my dictionary no'freeload'this word ).
u just a blog passenger?duuno y,i sense that u are my friend who seem like quite understand me one..haha..maybe is me wrong or think too much^^
anyway,thx u a lot,hope i can break through myself,do that thing i no dare do be4..haha..so that i would not miss the any niceness in my life..i will try my best^^

Anonymous said...

u lose ur direction,maybe coz of u lack of motivation, try to hold and dn give up, i believe苦尽甘来..try to build a"self motivation" dont ever let other medium or smtg to motivate u up,coz it will make u always too depend on smtg to gain strenght,and also dont cheat urself to motivate urself,that the negative way, i dint know u well, it just i read through many ppl blog who having the same problem as u, dont say HOPE U CAN DO IT, JUST DO IT, but think be4 act. WELCOME,sorry to crap my own comment in ur blog, probably i will leave ur blog soon..and i will be back if i recall u...Hope u can figure out the true meaning of the question i asked u during my previous comment..